Basically, what happened this morning is typical of our whole M, W is saying "Your illness is inconveniencing me, and that's not OK, so I'm gonna make you pay!" I remember once, when my dad was in hospital and I claimed a massage on her insurance plan and she was pissed, she said "do you realize this comes out of MY insurance money?" I replied sarcastically, "Oh, I'm sorry, I'll try in future not to let my petty health issues effect YOUR insurance money" It was all about HER, if I needed anything it was just an irritant in her eyes, "I have enough to deal with every day, I don't need more demands when I get home" That's one burned out lady, eh! Statements like "when you cry it makes me crazy!" witnessing her anger if I ever had the nerve to expect "tender, loving care" from her "I'm not that kind of W nor will I ever be!" Yup, what's not to love here! OK, rant over, I'm off to purge my mind of this kind of crap!!!
