When you've brought up working on the R in the past, has it worked?
This might seem like a 2x4, but seriously; what you're doing right now is working. Keep doing what works, don't revert to things that don't. Enjoy what you do get and above all, be PATIENT.
FWIW, I have a similar challenge as you. W shows affection, but claims no emotional attachment at this time. The confusion is hell. I find that focusing on whatever I get that I didn't expect, and working on continuing to better myself (a HUGE undertaking, let me tell you!) is VERY helpful.
Same But Different
T - 7 years M - 2 years (my 2nd) Bomb (ILYBNILWY) - 10/19/07 WAW - 12/29/07 W home 12/30/07
My D(18) lives with us
'The aliens abducted my wife, and all I got was this T-shirt!'
