Yesterday was my FIL birthday, so I decided that I would call him. When I tried though something weird happened with the phone. I know that they just got new service and I wasn't sure if they got a new number so I called W. She didn't answer and in the mean time FIL called back. It was good to talk to him. We talked for 40 minutes or so. Nothing really in particular, just about some common interests and stuff like that. W tried calling me back while I was talking to him.
So, I called her back after I finished with FIL. We didn't talk about anything R-wise. She's been having trouble at work, so I listened to that and validated how she was feeling. She's been super stressed. Even to the point of puking. She claims it's about work, but part of me wonders if she's starting to regret leaving too. We goofed around some too as I had her on speaker phone and let her "talk" to the cat. She also fell asleep while I was talking to her at one point. So we had a good laugh about that. It was about that point that I told her that I should let her go so that she could get some sleep. Ended the convo with good nights.
Well all of ten minutes later she calls me back and asks me what I'm doing. I was reading the paper, so I told her that. Then she tells me that she loves me. Says that no matter what happens that she loves me and cares about me. She then said something about this all being weird. I think that she meant the separation, but she kept talking, so I couldn't verify for sure what she was talking about. It was a short call. That's all she wanted to tell me and then she was off to bed.
This is the second time that I've gotten a call like this. While I think that it's positive, it also confuses the hell out of me. Why can't she commit to wanting to work on things with me? I'm not asking her to move back in right away. Just try some dating on a regular basis. How do I bring this up though? What should my next move be? Do I keep doing what I'm doing, or do I start to make more regular contact with her? I'm so confused. Any insight would be appreciated.
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008
Says that no matter what happens that she loves me and cares about me. She then said something about this all being weird. I think that she meant the separation, but she kept talking, so I couldn't verify for sure what she was talking about. It was a short call. That's all she wanted to tell me and then she was off to bed.
