She's gone...I'm devastated, but hopeful

[minkerman]

Well, after her email telling me she doesn't think it's a good idea to see each other this coming weekend, too much emotion etc, now I'm not so sure about that! I backed off completely in respect to her request for space, and lo and behold what happens? Last night she called me to tell me she was settled in to her temporary separation cell(friend's apartment where she is house-sitting). We had a great, upbeat conversation with zero mention of OR. My phone timer said 13 minutes...so hardly just a hello/goodbye. She asked me what I'd been up to, so I told her my latest in my GAL plan...I've signed up for a 10k run, and I start the training program this coming Sunday. She was quite surprised. Anyway, it was a very nice conversation, and I asked her if she wanted me "gone" when she stops by this coming Saturday to pick up a couple of things. She said...."ummmmm, let me think about it". A definite change from a couple of days ago. So, now I back off again and give my sweetie the space she has asked for. It seems to be working for her.

Meanwhile, I work on becoming the best man I can be....yoga again tonight!