Except cats behave like cats because that's just how they are. You are behaving like a cat because you want to see how she'll react. The word for that is "manipulation." You are behaving a certain way to achieve an outcome that is still entirely dependent on her.
I don't think that's what balto was suggesting.
Hairdog
No, I was suggesting that he do what he wants when he wants it. If he feels like offering up affection, do it. But do it for himself without the covert contract that he should get something in return. It is natural to expect someone to react as we ourselves would react but in order to follow the NMMNG tenets, you need to do the action for yourself, not to get the reaction you desire.
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
