An answer to the topic we were discussing from the mouth of strong puppy -lol
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I can't speak for other men, I can only speak for myself.
The attraction to the woman I'm with now at first was physical. I liked her body type, curvy with a nice round booty. I figured I'd just hit it a few times and be done with her. From the very first night we had sex, we were very much sexually compatible. Both liked the same positions, we both had stamina and liked long sex sessions. The first time we had sex, she stayed the whole night and we ended up having sex four different times that night.
So at first it was a physical attraction but once I got to know her what did it for me was her feminity. Her attitude, the way she walks, the way she does certain things. She is a female who knows who she is if that makes any sense. We are both college educated but she is smarter than I am, she is more of a deep thinker.
Its her feminity that just drives me wild sometimes, have my stomach tied in knots. I really don't know why that is. Its just a natural reaction for me. We could be having sex and she would say or do something that would get my heart ponding so fast, its like I'm having a heart attack.
Now, I'm an athlete and love the physical contact sports like football and basketball. I'm the kind of person who goes to the gym every morning at 6am and lift weights, run or swim BEFORE starting my work day. Even though I have an engineering degree, working in an office is not me, I like being in the field. I'm more of a rugid, aggressive type male.
So I guess coming home to something nice and soft is what I need. She must complete that feminine side of me that I'm lacking elsewhere in my life, I don't know. She understands me a lot of times and have no problem with me being a man. Sometimes when we're having sex, I like to man-handle her, flip her over a couple of times and just have my way with her, just take it from her kind of. Like you've been locked up for a while and she is the first woman you've had in a long time. She has no problem with me when I'm like that, she loves it even.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
