Aud, I just went to my C last week for the first time in several months. And it's amazing how much she helped me to organize my thoughts... figure out exactly waht it was I was worried about, and what kind of impact my actions will have (i.e. always questionning my H). I think your C can jsut help you organize your thoughts and give you some guidance on how to handle boundaries.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track