As far as custody goes, don't accept a 4/3 of 8/6 deal, unless you are the 4 and the 8. Your child support payment will be based on the percentage of time that you have the kids. 45% is the cutoff point. Money aside, you deserve at least 50%.
My attorney is proposing a 5-5-2-2 schedule. I will have the boys M/T, CW will have them W/Th, and we rotate F,S,S. This is the commonly accepted plan in MN (not quite as liberal as CA).
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......