At this point, the best thing for us to do is move on. Easier said than done.
I have had an incredibly difficult time with this situation. I wake up around 4AM each morning and start thinking about what I could have done differently. Our relationship was very challenging over the past 2 years as my wife's career started to take off. If I would have been more supportive instead of insisting that she "slow down," we would probably still be married. Who knows?
What I do know is that I loved my family more than anything and feel that I have lost it all. I really miss feeling "happy."
Ellis - I know exactly what you are going through.
Fortunately, my ex and I have been very civil to each other lately. That makes it a bit easier. But, it's tough when I see her because I still love her.
A year ago we took an incredible family vacation to Maui. We had just gotten through a rough patch as my wife developed an inappropriate friendship with a guy client. (texting) But we both re-committed to the marriage and were starting our lives over together. I never thought a year later we would be heading to divorce court.
