I think that the reason we stay and fight for so long is because we keep seeing glimpse's of the men they used to be, then man we fell in love with, who was good and kind. We still cherish what we had and just aren't ready to walk away. But there does come a time when you say enough, its just not worth it, but that is something only you can decide.
Good luck with the new job!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!