Oh - one more thing - he swears through lawyers the woman he is living with is just platonic. When my D told me he snuck her over there she described a 3 bedroom apt - and the woman had a teenage daughter and she said she saw Daddy's room which looked like a "small bed" and hardly any things in there. Now when my H said he wanted to repair M in Oct he swore affair was over with that woman and he was not in love and that woman had a 9 yr old daughter. So could this be a new relationship? where for the sake of the teenage daughter he is staying in guest room or could it really be just a roommate situation? - which is really hard to believe. I think it is romantic and could possibly be same woman and maybe D6 just thought she looked like teenager? I guess it really does not matter - he is living with another woman.