I think that challenge is a great idea for blindsided1! I've suggested it in the past but never as a direct challenge, good idea.
Yeah.. some stuff just TOTALLY changes meaning once you've been through this. I remember not long after the "bomb" for me, we were in this "walking on eggshells" phase and H was trying to cheer me up - so he rented a comedy. Guess which one? Oh yeah.. "The Breakup". After I bawled through the first 10 minutes he turned it off, but sheesh.. was it that hard to understand WHY that might not go over well??? (like your H with the Hugh Grant one).
I'm SO happy for you, you sound great!! Between the making up, and the GLO bowling - that is so cool. I know you and H don't get out on "dates" too much and I'm just thrilled to hear you went out together!! haha that's funny with the left handed bowling. Consistency is good..
BFL - yeah, you have to be WAY dedicated to stick with it. The 12 week time frame helps a lot, but it's still a major commitment. I thought I was in the right frame of mind but I'm really not right now.. so, going for 30 min. of some form of exercise a day, but not as intense as BFL right now. Physically wise I can guarantee you're strong enough because you adjust it for YOU... but mentally and emotionally wise it can be tough.
Hope your week goes well!!
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread