Jill - I hope you didn't ask him all those questions! Hope he's doing well and you are enjoying having him back. Be carefule about slipping into the "victim" role - we all know our Ses did wrong things, but also know we contributed our share to the marriage problems. Quote from my calendar today:
Quote: The highest reward for one's toil is not what one gets for it, but what one becomes by it. -John Ruskin