Mark,

Tell your lawyer everything, including Mrs. Shrek's spying. She may want you to document everything so that you have a better case for shared custody.

I think the best arrangement is 50/50.

If not, then 4 nights with her, 3 nights with you.

Fight for shared custody. DO NOT LET THAT BASTARD RAISE YOUR CHILDREN.

Being the doormat to keep wife happy and sacrificing your kids is insane.

--Theoden