Help, it seems my 35 year old wife is in MLC #11

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The weather here is pretty good right now. It was actually warm last week. Most of the snow is gone now. It was really windy the other day. The winds got up to 108 kmh. Fortuately, it was farely warm. Winters in the Toronto area are not bad. we get snow and it is cold but it actually isn't as bad as an area like Buffalo.

I think the financial reality is really starting to hit my W. It seems that every couple of days she is eluding to her not having any money. I'm sometimes starting to think that she is missing the kids more too. Also, the party must be slowing down. No Money, No Car. Doesn't make much of a party. Also, to me, she must miss some aspects of our life. for example she always hated cooking and we'd go out to eat or order in about 5 times a week. Now she has to cook every night and I asked the kids the other day if she took them to dinner and they said never.

When I talked to W today she said that she got food poisoning on Christmas day and was "very very sick" to use her words. I wonder if there was a psychological component to that because she was not with the family.

In all, she may still be in MLC, but I wouldn't be surprised if she wasn't enjoying herself anymore.

Regarding walking on eggshells, I wouldn't say that I do but I would say that I have learned to shut up and not say much rather than speaking my mind and causing a fuss. I very much take a hands off approach. She has to burn herself out and nothing I do will speed that up so I leave her be. (Except when it comes to milk apperantly )