Help, it seems my 35 year old wife is in MLC #11

[Punktmann]

Imageer, I think you have expressed what I have just been getting in touch with.

I had read somewhere that yout should question any of their action because they will find it controlling.

A comment from me that indicates the slightest deviation from complete agreement results in petulant behavior.

Tonight is a perfect example. (the spare bedroom that I relegated myself to, DOH, is the COLDEST room in the house, by about 15 degrees!) A light convo about how cold and windy it is here turned to my mentioning that I was cold even though I had the space heater in there and turned all the way up. She mentioned that she thought that I would be warmer ir I left the doors open to the spare room, and I said that I had found that with the doors closed it seemed warmer. She walked out of the room in a huff, and said over her shoulder, "I MUST be wrong then." WTF, if you want to try it out, then you sleep down here, and I'll go back to my normal warm bed you stinker.

Anyway, I think you are absolutley right about that.

Since I got off the eggshells, this has gotten much worse with her. I don't antagonize, but I also speak my mind now instead of tailoring things to her.

It feels pretty good.



I really don't know. Normal W would absolutley remember but who knows about MLC W.

I guess that is what I was thinking when I asked, I was hoping that the MLC fog would obscure that for a while longer. Time is on our side here.


Punk, one step closer doesn't mean you are at the finish line yet.

You're right buddy. I had the butterflies for a while, "and on the absolute wrong day at work too!" but this is just a step.


I also think that there is a whole lot of reality headed her way.

I know this, but watching an impending crash of any sort makes one nervous.

I think that the financial reality of this is starting to set in a bit.

I suppose that for us family men, what we are praying for is that the family reality of this sets in.

Sad to say, but without the kids in the picture, as much as I still love her, I think I might just say "enough."



Just curious, what is the weather like up there? It is absolutley FRIGID here, (like inside the house, ) and the wind is terrible. I took the kids outside on Sun, but we had to come back in after about 15 min.