Who will be my Du (dude) enna?

[Burgbud]

(Mojo) However, BB is right to slap my little monkey paw because I really should be spending more time on the Wealth quadrant of my life.

If you're just having fun and playing while working to square away other parts of your life, then no problem (and I can relate). It's just that when you asked for help in moving from a one-up/one-down situation to something more balanced, it seemed like you were wanting to make a relationship work. That would be a cry for help if I ever heard one.

I also find it very odd that an attractive captain-of-industry is nosing around the online dating scene. Not long ago I thought that women held all the power in the dating game. Now I believe it's better to be a man when it comes to real world dating, but online dating is solidly the province of women. To me, it's a waste of time, so I'm not sure why this guy is hanging out there. Seems like his dating plate should be full without the online component. If he's just playing around, then whatever, but he seems a bit clingy for that to be the case. It'll be interesting to see what happens.

At any rate, my dude-enna advice for you is not to figure out how to make anything work with him. Just figure out what he is and then take it or leave it. This is your time for playing the field and having fun, not getting attached to some guy because he calls you every night.