THE PROB IS MOST NEWBIES THINK IT DOESNT APPLY TO THEIR SITUATION...THEIRS IS SOMEHOW DIFFERENT. IVE GONE ROUND AND ROUND W/ SEVERAL THIS FALL....WILL THEY READ AND LISTEN???? I HOPE SO.
NC DOES NOT SEND THE WAS FARTHER AWAY...YES THEY MAY GO DEEPER IN THE TUNNEL W/OP...THAT NEWBIES IS PART OF THE JOURNEY. IT IS A PART OF THE CRISIS THEY MUST GO THRU
Amen... I was that newbie who read it all here and many other places but never put it into action over the past year because... well.. you guessed it my situation was different... YEAH RIGHT. Now that I am here still a year later I am basically putting a LRT to myself.. I sayto myself backing up hurts but I can either back up and be better for myself and maybe have my marriage back (best case scenario) or I can back up and be better for myself incase there is no more marriage... either way I need to be better for myself. Either way I know that over the past LITTLE while that I have been trying not to let my emotions guide my actions at least I feel much better for ME!
me:29, H 33 Bomb- 11/06/2006 I came home from work to find that he had moved out into an apartment. next day he says he wants to work on our marriage but will not return until he feels right. kids-4 m-10 years T- 13 years another Bomb-Sept '07 OW confirmed...
