Went with h to counselling and he basically said his r with ow is going well. They are growing closer and clicking well. When asked to make a choice he chose ow. C also told him it would not be healthy for him to give up ow right now as he has no one else!!!!!can someone explain this, the c saying yes continue your affair! she told me she is worried about h and it is healthy for him to have someone?????
He said R is not PA but just EA, but i dont believe that. Would it be unwise to phone OW or go see her and tell her my H is important to me and has told me about their R and to tell her i want my M to work and for her step back or would that just push H and ow closer? C told me ow is not the cause of this and if h settles with her it is not her fault.
If i go dark etc he is just using that to forget me and get closer to ow. One thing he did do is swop cars so i could drive d in safer on.
Help this ride is starting to get out of control, i just want my h to come home. he admitted to no longer wanting responsability of a family. Yet he gets straight into another r.
