People more than anything need redemption, rebuilding, rehabilitation. No person is "untarnished", everyone has flaws. No relationship is "perfect" and untarnished either. if you think you have an untarnished relationship, it hasn't been tested yet.
Great points, here. I think this is what keeps me going.
Regards,
ntl
Me: 30 H: 32 Dating 10/96 Married 8/01 H PA's: Summer 97, 12/06, 5/07-10/23/07 My Saga