Thanks for the support fish.

In counselling today my h admitted to relationship with ow getting more serious. I asked him to make a choice to try make us work or to continue with her. He would not agree to ending it with her. He feels that she is what is getting him through this. The MC then agrees with him and says he must not give up ow!!!!!can anyoune explain this?

He basically chose her and is using c to get through his issues before he is strong enough to D.