I think a lot of our spouses have been cloned. It's the same crap from all of them. And my H appears very in control like nothing is wrong. I on the other hand wear my heart on my sleeve and have to take meds to get through a day. My H doesn't even cry. He just says the kids will be fine and on and on....blah, blah....blah!
I too have talked to a lawyer for guidance. At least if my husband files I am not in the dark as to what I'm entitled to. I will only go to my lawyer if he files, then I'll contest it. I will drag it out until dooms day. I'm serious. H's OW is used to being handed everything. This the first time she has ever worked in her life. My H will not be able to keep up with all her wants. I will take him for everything so my kids can continue to lead the life they are used to.
Take care
Treese
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
