Ongoing affair, D papers filed, advice wanted

[SirPrizeMe]

When I brought the boys back home after skiing last night, tired and happy, I did not go into the house. last week W said I was stalking her, so going into my house, which I pay for, is off limits, even if invited by my own kids.

I asked the boys to go in and tell their sisters I'd like to see them outside. D6 and D9 came out, all bubbly, big hugs for daddy. I gave them each a sweet thing, and a toy ring. Like costume jewelry. D9 invited me in the house. I had to decline.

S11 came back out, also invited me in the house. I had to decline that one, too. He is always so disappointed.

Ach. What can you do?