That struck a chord with me too. I think I took my rings off as an act of restoration...or maybe to hurt H. In reality I don't think he cared on way or the other at the time. Now I have had them off so long I feel like we would have to talk about it before I/we put them back on.
I am so glad you had so much fun at the show. I understand wanting H to be there and wanting to experience things with him...but it is fun to go with friends too.
Just give him some time. Hopefully he will make some contact soon. You do have something positive going...he hasn't filed for D. Also, you sound like you are dealing with everything really well and have a great group of friends for support.
