What was your response to her admission? As hard as it is, I hope that you were able to validate her feelings even if you don't understand her actions.
So does "deciding to wait to decide" mean that the D is on hold for the time being? If so, how is this affecting the positive attitude that you were displaying in earlier posts?
Are you willing to work on things if your W decides that she is ready to? If so, then it is more important than ever right now to stay positive and not revert back to your old ways.
Hang in there. I know this is a confusing and emotional time.
Peace, B
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008
