This is what I feel muddled about- should I be drawing a boundary here? I don't think that I want to send him the message that he should be spending less time with us, but I somehow want to communicate that we are not really separated right now. If we were to really separate or move toward divorce (gulp!), it would be nothing like what we're doing now.
Since I'm the one who doesn't want to be separated, should I push for more time apart? That doesn't make sense to me. He moved out to get more space, and I'm trying to give him that, hoping that it is only a temporary arrangement and he'll be permanently back with us sometime soon.
This is all so hard for me to work through when I'm not supposed to be initiating any r talks. We have a JC appt next Thurs- should I bring this up there?
