P.S. I was right - he used every red cent he had on fixing his car. (told me he couldn't get S11 underwear he needed) Surprisingly he didn't ask me for any money. So there is no way anything is going forward anytime soon as divorce costs $. So I know that for some time at least I will remain in limbo.
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08