do you seriously see nothing wrong with saying that if he treats you like crap he will get the same in return? How does that help anything
I have to agree with this. Hon, by saying this you are tying your moods to how you H acts, you are depending on his behaviors. If I were to treat my H the crappy way he's behaved I'd be one bitter person. Helping without expectations will save you disappointments in the future, give without giving in, give because it feels right, it's be nice if he did correspond (help you when you'd needed it) but if it doesnt happen it shouldnt' matter.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
