Well, I'm the best damn inappropriate R she'll ever find You are right, OT, continuing what we were doing could only lead to problems for her and for me. I also realize that it's not easy to sit down and say "hey, you know this thing we're doing, whatever it may be, it's just not working for me for whatever reason..." How do you discuss a R that has never been discussed or given any kind of identity? Beats me. She didn't know what to do so she did what she did. Now, when she sees me on occassion she's personable and seems to have no issues with me, that's positive. I just find handling rejection issues right now really dificult, I do try to recognize that what's going on in my head is largely just in my head. Btw, I did email one of the guys and he got back to me to explain what happened and we came up with a plan to prevent us missing each other again!
