I agree w/ B that your W hasn't given up completely. I think she keeps saying it is over because the WAS has such a hard time swallowing their pride and admiting that they may have been wrong. My H hasn't said any of the positives that your W has, but he seems to show a lot of signs that he still has strong feelings. Like your W he has made not move towards legal action. That is still giving me hope and I still see hope for you although W is in a very dark place now.
Well, we just had our first night together at her house... We were already pretty stressed and exhausted after moving stuff all day long, plus we had dinner over at her parents (they watched D all weekend), so I wasn't expecting a whole lot. I got here really late (10:30 or so), and W was already setup for bed. W had switched bed sides to be closer to the door for D (she originally switched sides five years ago when we were first together). I was pretty comfy where I was, and we even did ILY/ILYT when we were going to sleep. W burst into life a little later and asked me a bunch of stuff about things I had moved and where bits and pieces were - She seemed pretty content when I told her I would make sure I got the things together for her (and I did this morning). We both went to sleep pretty much in the middle of the bed - Nice change from last time when she was practically hanging off the edge all night.
I guess around 1 or so W got up and moved to the couch. I could hear her downstairs, but I decided not to bother her. She came back up around 6 and we went back to sleep together until D woke up around 7:30. The morning was pretty smooth, and W actually got to work early for a change. I ended up working from home today so I could get some stuff cleaned up, but I'm trying to avoid doing too much around the house so as not to make W uncomfortable.
W is still sick as a dog. She looked like she was ready to just collapse this morning - Still refuses to go to the doctor though.
