Great on the we thing. It's funny how we don't think about that until we go through all the crap we have then you get all giddy just thinking they include you.
I totally understand about your grandma. You have to remember that she has been out of your dads life for so long that he has already greived her loss and already feels she has passed in a sense.
When H's Dad got to the point where his quality of life was at 0 we to prayed that he would pass so that he was in a better place.That is what he wanted and who are we to be selfish wanting him to stay here so that we still have them.
Remember it is not about us but about them . I do agree with H that your Bro needs to know.
On a great note NIK you are SO myserious!!!!! that was awesome on piano nite. You could have stayed home but you went and you had fun and you have H wondering all sorts of thoughts I bet.
Hope you have a great week.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
