She also said, after talking to me, that she thinks that H may be a little ADHD. She sees his constant need for stimulation and how easily he gets bored and tunes out.
My H has ADHD and I know that his condition played a big role in the demise of my M, him not knowing how it affected him, me not understanding and doing the wrong things. If he is ADHD it needs to be addressed. ADHD people can't take stressful stiches, panic easily when things go wrong, have bouts of anger and a min later are as fine as pie, do push your buttons so "something" can happen, (anger releases a feel good chemical in their brains, hence their need to start an argument). Bad with their money. Forget mostly everything, where they put things, what they said. They are also prone to be crass, they don't really think things before they speak and hence don't have many friends. Is this your H? many people benefit from meds, in fact, some can't function properly without them. I hope you are able to figure that if indeed he is ADHD, it would account for a lot of his irrational behavior.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
