Wow, where was I at the past few days?? I'm glad that you felt connected with your H. The last time that happened for H & I, it felt so mechanical, so unconnected. I just wanted it over. Good for you. It's nice to have those times.
So has your H said anything to you about the trip? I'm so sorry that I've been absent from other people's threads.
How are your d's feeling?
Have a great day!!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
Wow lwb..... I don't keep up on your sitch for a few days and look at this. What a change. I really hope he's starting to see the light. Me on the other hand...not so good. I should have met up with you Saturday night. I had one of those wth did I do weekends....I guess if this is my only weekend like that I'll be okay.
You really sound like you are in a good spot and that you still have your head on straight. Stay strong.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
Me on the other hand...not so good. I should have met up with you Saturday night. I had one of those wth did I do weekends....I guess if this is my only weekend like that I'll be okay.
Do you mean one of those "WTH" weekends where you can't remember what you did because of the dirty beer glasses or one of those that you just didn't get much accomplished weekends? Inquiring minds want to know...
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Do you mean one of those "WTH" weekends where you can't remember what you did because of the dirty beer glasses or one of those that you just didn't get much accomplished weekends? Inquiring minds want to know...
Nothing to do with not getting anything accomplished...more to do with drinking and thinking this was a once in a lifetime kind of weekend and it would make for a good story in a couple of years...making the boring me a little more exciting. The whole weekend was so out of character for me...actually the craziest ever. It was one of those things that I thought that I would always look back on my life and say what-if and I don't want anymore of those....but now on Monday, I'm looking at things a little differently. Why does life have to be so complicated? And to top it off, I heard from XH again today. My life is crazy.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
Hope, Oh, one of those weekends! LOL. Well, you deserve to do what you want to do right now, your H sure didn't have any problems doing what he wanted to do. Only thing is now I think he realizes what a huge mistake he made now...They say hindsight is 20/20...too bad foresight isn't 20/20.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Hey yoyo, my absence is just because work has been busy.
I have found something wrong with having sex with my H. It makes me want to be closer with him in other ways. I wish he would call or email more, or be more interested in my life. I haven't told him these things, do not want to push him. He does ask me questions, but its not about everyday life, its about our R and his thoughts about me 'cheating'. I just keep it light. I do ask him about his life, but not all the time. Don't want to scare away the wild animal.
I know what you mean, it makes you think things should immediately be back to "normal", but unfortunately they don't think that way...Cautiously is definitely the way to approach your R. Sad that it almost has to be like a game, isn't it? How did our marriages end up like this?
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
