I wanted to post to you on your thread but it is locked also.
I read some of your posts and your H sounds just like mine in the avoiding conflict thing. As im sure CL has noticed. My H just wants me to forget anything ever happened and go on as before. (he has been very attentive)It is hard for me not to think about things or read into every one of H's moves now because of DBing but i do not say anything to him if I feel anxious because most of the time it is me not him. If I have an issue that I can't work through and that needs to be addressed then i bring it up but, for the most part I have no tongue left.
CL, Sorry to high-jack your thread. Any input wise one?
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
My H just wants me to forget anything ever happened and go on as before. (he has been very attentive)It is hard for me not to think about things or read into every one of H's moves now because of DBing but i do not say anything to him if I feel anxious because most of the time it is me not him. If I have an issue that I can't work through and that needs to be addressed then i bring it up but, for the most part I have no tongue left.
