I have gotten on the list of complaints is why the place is such a mess like the girls rooms.

You have only one child?
I have three and H expects it perfect all the time!!!

For some reason they have it more of a mess when H comes to vist!!! H even had this oen of his stipulation to come home-he said this to the girls!! that they needee to keep it clean!!
On his last visit I helped the girls clean it just before he came over and no soon as I turned my back to finsih cooking d7 took all her blankets down and had them spread all over the floor!!

Yet he lets them do whatever over at his & OW's. I guess since its not technically their romm,whatever.
Jus another excuse to justify their leaving...as dumb as it seems...