PS is right Cl your W did share something very personal to her and you should look at it as a big baby step in the right direction. It sounds like she is finding some peace without the pressures of a job she disliked.

Glad you had a good week end. I have been hoping to see you get back to your dance. Now i have to get back to the gym starting today! Don't want my new twin grandchildren to see a gramma when they look at me fior the first time. ;\)

JAK

You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez