He can't lye on the couch and be out getting somthing to eat at the same time.

GO DARK!!!!

Either he will decide to work on things or he won't but either way you will be fine. I know it may not seem like it right now and you are scared. Some of the strongest people I know were scared having gone through things like this but they came through it as wonderful, independent, individuls and I know you can too.

I was so scared at first at the thought of my 30 year marriage ending. Now I know that yes I would be sad but also excited for what the rest of my life may hold for me.
Life is what you make it, and you can sit and worry and be scared and think you need XH or you can go make the best of life for you and your children and if XH decides to get his head out of his A$$ then fine if not then to bad for him!!!!

JAK

Last edited by jak58; 01/14/08 02:40 PM.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez