H got home. I was pleasant. We were here alone for the night. He unpacked his bag quickly (something he used to do when he had to hide his secret phone, so I noticed, but kept preparing dinner) and didn't have much to say.
We ate dinner and then he went to shower. After his shower I asked if he'd come see something. He walked in the kitchen and I showed his two months calendars with everything listed on the due date. He barely glanced at it!!
He doesn't want to know! At least that's the impression I got.
I sorted the laundry and one of his shirts reeked of cigarette smoke. I said "where did you go?" He stared at me a moment and then said "a club."
He had gone to a club Friday night with his 27 year old buddy. Need I remind anyone my H is 46? He said it was a club attached to a bowling alley. I said what did you do? He said stand around. Then "I didn't spend any money!" I was just asking casually as I sorted the laundry and started a load.
I asked what kind of friendship he has with xxx (the 27 year old). He said "I know it just eats you up?!" He said next time I go I will invite S23 "since they are the same age" as you have pointed out. I said it just seems odd for someone your age to go out with a boy his age. Wouldn't you think it odd if S23 hung out with a man your age? You spend more time with this guy than you do S23 and it just seems odd to me.
Well, he's very defensive about this and I know I pushed his buttons by asking, but I don't care. This guy is already divorced at 27 and I just can't figure out the connection. I've wondered if it was something gross to be honest. Usually they go out and drink and eat wings he says, but this time they went to a club.
I'll admit I was royally pissed, but I kept it in. I don't want this life!!!!!!
His DN friend is in his early 30's. What is the deal? H could be 27 yo's father!
I don't like him. That pretty much ended my being friendly and conversing for the evening. I went and put on "Pride and Prejudice" and watched it and H went to bed a bit later.
I'm beginning to hate him.
"Tell me what you plan to do with your one wild and precious life." Mary Oliver
