A couple of odd things happened over the weekend. On Friday W started asking questions about the bad financial events of the past. I noticed that she remember much of it wrong, so I corrected her. After that she stopped talking about it. I'm guessing that her motivation is this was trying to find a source of money but there was none.
Then on Sunday when I picked up the kids there was something different about her. I've been trying to figure out what it was but I can't. The thing that stands out most about it was that in the 5 minutes that I saw her for, I made her laugh twice. It was how I use to be able to make her laugh and she laughed like her old self. It was nice to see.
I'm finding myself getting increasingly nervous as the 1 year mark approaches on Jan. 28th. In Canada You cannot file for D until you have been S for 1 year. So, in a couple of weeks W will be able to file if she wants. I tell myself that it has no bearing on the big picture, it's just a piece of paper but I'm still nervous. I really have no idea what she will do.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford