3 and a half years?! how do you stand it?!people have been telling me that maybe i do too much, and that it seems that i am being taken advantage of. i say that this may be part of the problem, but not all of it. i know it is mainly her personality, that not giving herself to me when she doesn't want to is her way of controlling me-through the bedroom. she knows that even when she says no, i will be mad but will get over it and i'll still do the laundry, talk to her, cook, etc.
i'll tell you what i have been doing: taking baltoman's advice, and being a cat. i have stopped being lovey-dove, and think that i will be getting some results. i haven't been complimenting her, or telling her that i love her, just being distant, but there, talkative but doing my own thing, not being around her 24/7, not even touching her! her period should come this week, and that's when i am guaranteeing that she will open up and ask me what's going on, that i seem distant and unattending.
