Im sorry that your H is acting like such a jerk. He is very immature and needs an attitude adjustment.
Im glad you had a good time with you D3.. thank the gods above that you have eachother.
Pets are so dear to us.. they are like a part of the family, i've had lots of pets growing up and its heartbreaking when they get older and sick.
Maybe you could go out by yourself sometime just to get away.. do you have a sitter for your daughter? Even if it was a couple of hours to walk the mall or go for a manicure, just for you to regroup.. I think you need that right now.. and as for the feeling like your love is leaving for him, I would imagine that you are going through some serious detachment from him, and that for all that you've been through this is totally understandable. Everyone reaches there threshold of what they can stand at some point and there is just so much someone can take from someone that they love.
You have a good job, and A wonderful daughter, please try and focus on that and I think he further you keep your heart away from H, the better off you will be right now. As for your D3..She is still young, but she will know something is going on. All you can do is love her and comfort her. When she is older she will remember that.
hugs to you and D3
tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.