I think that you make a very important point, that marriage is hard work, and I think this is a big thing that we all forget, and this is why we get to this point. We just begin to coast in the marriage thinking it will be fine, but in truth we have to tend to it! If only I had realized this alot sooner. But now I do I am not going to forget it, or let it slip again!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!