Question for you since you have been at this longer than I. In previous posts form me I have mentioned that H still wants to come over and do whatever I need to have done around the house and all those husbandly things they normally do. I was advised by some in here to let him if it is something I personally can't handle. Now my question for you is silly but still...H is an auto. tech. and has been telling me for a couple weeks he will do my oil change in my van that is overdue but hasn't yet. Should I just stop asking him and go to a Jiffy Lube or Valvoline so it's done and then run the risk of angering him because I took it to one of those places or do I continue to ask him to do it and anger him because I am nagging?
Both 35 T 19/M 15 years S8/D5 It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07
