How do I begin piecing??

[MichelleLT]

Don't worry too much about what he said. If he turns the power on this week and moves, then that's what counts, not how he said it. Despite his wavering and taking forever on the job and moving, he is definitely taking baby steps in the right direction.

As for it he wavers, it will be pretty easy for him to blame you if things don't go like he wants. So don't give him too many opportunities. No pressure, no suggestions unless asked for, no fixing things for him. Make it be his decision and if he does try and put it on you, don't let him.

It's good he's willing to go to counseling. Just stay focused on the positives.

And kudos on resisting the phone bill temptation!