I'm sensing you're in a tough spot right now. Perhaps it's because I'm making the shift which is more concrete. Not staying with sis etc.
Next Sat. I'd like to go to Costco and I need to get my hair cut. I'll need some groceries too. I also will be needing a bit of down time so I'd prefer to wait a bit before we see each other again. I found yesterday to be very emotional and kinda draining and I just need a bit of space. Please understand, that's what this process is all about.
Having a XYZ week (this is a work thing, presentations etc) on the week of the 22nd and you know how draining those are for me.
I will stay in touch!
Guess I need to back waaaaay off now. I emailed her back, 'no problem, call me when you're ready, don't want to push'.
Maybe being Mr Nice Guy isn't working. I used to be a lot more confident and assertive, I think that's what she needs to start seeing, because it is the real me.
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!