Frank the mistake that you are making is trying to make her see the way that you are now starting to see.
SHUT UP!
You know, I don't get this comment. She's not crazy like before, she's just had enough and thinks she needs to move on. What is it you think that 'I' am seeing that she isn't seeing? DB 101: No pleading, begging, promising, bargaining, etc...that's what you're doing when you're telling her all that you have "realized" and you're only sounding pitiful. Sorry. She's heard it all before.
Maybe there is something SHE is seeing that I'm not seeing? I do not believe that for one thin second. In fact, that you might actually believe that is almost funny if it weren't such a frightening testimony to your current state of mind.
I'm not beating you up Don't care if you were. I can take it. , I'm just looking for answers They're not going to be found on this board unless you open your eyes and get off the pity pot, positioning yourself as a man of war instead of a loser whose always a day late and a dollar short. I know that's harsh but I think harsh is called for in dealing with you right now. You are a very intelligent man but Frank, your street smarts SUCK. . I don't understand why anybody thinks there is 'hope' for us any more Mainly, because of her emotions. The opposite of love is indifference. She is angry, sad and trying to be resigned to her belief that you can't grow and change. I assure you that if you get this process underway, her heart CAN STILL be turned back to you. Frank, I am proof. . There's hope for ME as an individual, and hope for her as an individual also. But 'us'? Yep. But you have to be changing for you or it's not gonna stick. 2X you didn't get it right. I say the 3rd time's a charm.
