Ann, I use to have the same issues with my H. He would grope me and be a little too should I say "porn like" at least that is how It felt to me. Some times I would feel like I was just a piece of meat. Now, I'm not saying that there weren't times that I didn't like it, there were. But, there should be a balance. I needed him to be kind and gentle, too. I don't know how you would go about it without bruising his ego except to maybe just say "honey, I love the attention you show me, but sometimes I need to feel your tenderness, too." I don't know, you know your H the best. Good luck. How was your weekend?
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him