Last Monday was the first time I talked to W and she seemed to listen, although there were times she looked like she wasn't also. Also was the first time she told me of things that pushed her away.
Maybe next time she will open up a little more and I will listen and shut up, just validate her feelings instead of defending myself.
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26