Thanks LWB - I think I need a new perspective on the sex thing. I'm thinking about re-reading some of DR/DB and see if I can put a plan in action. I may just need to address all of this in IC. I wish H would go with me. I need a solution here though and waiting for it to fix itself is ridiculous. I don't believe in burying stuff and at the same time, I DON'T want to blow this out of the water - I mean it's sex. It's supposed to be fun. It's supposed to be the culminating expression of love. And, shame on me, I'm not really pursuing my H in a loving manner on this, I'm kinda, dare I say it, objectifying him solely because it's been so long....
see...told you all I had work to do!
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley
