I think you all give me more credit for being "strong" than I deserve..

OC - as for exposing D4 to ow - that's the straw that broke the camels back.. I am not interested in reconciling with someone that has such different views on what is best for our child. Having no morals for yourself is one thing; exposing small children to that is another.

Funny thing that happened last week - I got carded for buying alcohol! hahaha!!! I am twice the drinking age!!!